

Jessica Lanyadoo is the resident astrologer at. Screw that! When you act in ways that are inauthentic, you aren’t investing in your happiness-you’re investing in your fears.ĭon't let your desire to feel secure change who you are, especially if what you want is a meaningful relationship. That kind of thinking suggests you don’t believe they’ll like you as you are, or that you need to appease this stranger in order to make things work.

When you try to diagram your crush, it can incline you to be accommodating to what you believe they want before they even ask for it. Focus on what’s currently happening, and make the best choices you can. Who and what you attract are a reflection of your intimacy issues, and that's all in your own chart.ĭon’t waste your energy obsessing about a future that you can’t know. If your crush is flaky, it doesn’t matter that you can see it articulated in their chart if it just makes you feel bad. Furthermore, explaining a person away may make you feel better for a minute, but it won't help you in the end.
